Devastated and coping with loss due to disfellowship...
I am glad I found this website as I am hoping someone can help me deal with what I'm going through...I met the most wonderful woman in my life last yr and we started dating. We became quite serious...
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Hi Chris, I have been reading through your post for the past few days with great interest.You’ve already been getting some good advice, but just wanted to add my two cents.You say you think your GF...
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Ctw, hello and welcome to our family. You are a member of our family because you are being royally screwed by the WTS and that is something we all know about, whatever our situation. You have already...
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It's 1am EST time here in GA and I just walked in from an 8 hour discussion... I'm emotionally and spiritually drained. I'm so tired right now from it all I can barely type. I'm just numb. I felt like...
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Really sorry to hear that - it was always going to be a long shot, but it must be very painful for you. Most of us here have had similar conversations with JW loved ones, and it really is like banging...
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Hi again ctwatlanta, I pleased that you managed to find the strength and courage to do what you needed to do, as I know how exceptionally difficult that would have been. I also am sad that it didn't...
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Welcome to the brotherhood CTW, because unfortunately you now carry the same scars as most of us here...my heart breaks for you!You have been the voice of reason in the wilderness and she refuses to...
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As predictable as the outcome was, it still sucks. I wish I had thought to mention this before, but for some reason it completely escaped my mind. The prodigal son parable is perhaps THE biblical...
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(((Chris))) I’m so sorry for the hurt this has caused you. As you can see, logic doesn’t really matter to someone who is so brainwashed. Many, many of us have had the same conversation with family and...
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I'm very sorry you're going through so much pain, Chris! {{{Hugs!}}} I'm glad, though, that you found the strength to have this long discussion with her. It wasn't right for her to leave you in limbo....
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Sorry to hear this has all gone on because of a cooky cult. I am so sorry for you Ctw. In the words of 'Unkucky Alf' from 'the Fast Show' : 'Oh, bugger!'
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Good morning and thank you for the heartfelt sympathy. When I mentioned to her that I was just reading online about JW she asked what/where I was obtaining info. I told her I did run across an Ex JW...
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theres just so much i want to say to you and theres no way i will remember it all as i type this but i do understand your need to push away this experience. i was walking out of work yesterday and i...
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Chris, thank you for being so brave and sharing your story with us. I promise you that it will/has helped other people. If you need to go away to heal, we totally understand. Take good care of...
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Its a heartwrenching story we all knew exactly what was coming yet could do nothing to stop it.It goes to prove that Satan does indeed control the world. The Jehovah's Witnesses World that is.Get well...
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This story is truely heartbreaking. I don't have any words of wisdom or anything to help with what you're going through but I will be thinking of you. Take care, Chris and I hope you find happiness...
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I'm so very sorry that this has happened to you Chris. You really don't deserve it. I'm thinking of you at this difficult time.
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Okay this is my thoughts, Im sure she loves you very much or she would not keep contacting you. I do not think shes going to run off and marry some jw in the organization either. I think from what is...
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Hey Chris,I will add my sorry's to everyone else's. I was thinking about that old cheesy movie "The Ten Commandments" and how Moses was in love with this woman and all was right in their world,...
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Very sad news there Chris ..... my heart reaches out to you and to your former girlfriend too mate. It is an insidious religion that requires so much dedication and faith. I hope you stick around or...
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